I faced one of my fears today: a green pole at a playground. We’ve come to this park many times, and my son always begs me to slide down the daunting pole. When I get to the top of the play structure, the ground looks super far away, and I always decline. “That isn’t something grown-ups have to do,” I rationalize. Today, however, I changed my mind. Later, on the other side of the park, whining and shaking, my son refused again to attempt the rock-climbing wall. I decided to climb it first to show him proper technique (what can I say, I’m super athletic when it comes to tiny rock walls). Then, he asked me again to face the pole. I figured if he was conquering his fears, I should too. And do you know what? Both of us felt stronger and more confident leaving the park.
An Unconventional form of Service
Play on the Playground: I’m certainly not going to do this every day, but after sliding down the pole and climbing the rock wall, I was motivated to play. We went down the large tunnel slide several times, and both my kids loved it. The time passed quickly, and once I got over myself and my fear, we had a blast at the park. Some days we try to do bigger service projects, and some days, we conquer our park fears.
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